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How can you help your children get off social media?




Let's face it, most of us are addicted to our phones, apps and social media. But the damage social media addiction is doing to us especially children must be addressed urgently and with sensible progressive ideas. 


Simply banning children from their phones and social media after they have used them regularly is problematic and leads to resentment and can expose them to bullying at school and create isolation from friends. 

Therefore helping your children reduce their social media use requires a thoughtful and supportive approach. Here are some useful strategies you can use:


How can you help your children get off social media?


1. Open Conversations


As a parent, understanding the reasons why is perhaps the most important way to begin the process. 


Take some time to sit down and talk about the risks: Take time to explain the potential dangers of excessive social media use, like cyberbullying, unrealistic comparisons, and the impact on mental health. 


Encourage dialogue: Ask them about their online experiences and feelings. Make sure they feel heard and supported without judgment.


2. Set Clear Boundaries


It's never easy to change behaviour, but it can be done. 


Create screen time limits: Set a daily or weekly screen time limit that balances their online and offline activities.


Designate no-phone zones: Make areas like the dinner table or bedrooms social media-free to encourage face-to-face interactions.


Establish tech-free times: Schedule times during the day where the whole family takes a break from screens, like during meals or before bed.


3. Promote Alternative Activities


It will surprise you how quickly we can all adapt once we have something to take our focus away from our phone activities. I'm sure most of you already do many offline activities but we can always do more. But if your children are spending too much time on their phones it is essential that you foster new alternatives. 


Encourage hobbies: Suggest new activities, such as sports, art, reading, or other hobbies that don’t involve screens.


Family time: Plan activities that foster togetherness, such as board games, cooking, or outdoor adventures.


Exercise: Encourage physical activities like biking, hiking, or swimming. It helps distract from the urge to check social media.


4. Model Healthy Behaviour


If you're like me and have to have your phone near you all the time just in case you miss an important message. You need to address this and change and adapt to a better way. 


Lead by example: Show your kids how to balance screen time by setting boundaries for your own social media use.


Practice what you preach: Engage in the offline activities you encourage, whether it’s reading, outdoor activities, or having a no-phone rule at the dinner table.


5. Use Parental Controls and Apps


More needs to be done by social media companies to create easy-to-use (and find) parental controls, but progress is being made.  


Monitor usage: Many devices and apps offer parental control features that let you monitor screen time and restrict social media access.


Set app restrictions: Use apps like Google Family Link or Apple Screen Time to limit access to social media apps during certain hours.


6. Support Their Social Needs


There's more to life than TikTok and Roblox...


Help them find offline social outlets: Encourage them to meet friends in person, join clubs, or participate in group activities like sports or community events.


Address social pressure: Help them understand that they don’t need to be constantly available online to maintain friendships.


7. Teach Digital Well-being


We are often so immersed in apps social media and the instant gratification and communication our mobile phones give us. We have forgotten that there was life before it.


Explain the importance of balance: Help them understand the importance of balancing online life with real-life interactions.


Digital detox: Suggest occasional social media breaks or challenges, such as a weekend without screens, to experience life without constant online interaction.


8. Gradual Reduction


Don't try and do everything in one go. You will fail. 


Small steps: Gradually reduce their time online rather than an abrupt stop, which could cause resistance. For example, decrease social media use by 30 minutes each week.


Reward progress: Praise or reward them when they successfully stick to limits or make positive changes in their habits.


Like it or not mobile phones, apps and social media have had a profound impact on our lives and are here to stay. But by creating a more balanced, supportive environment, you will help yourself and your children reduce their reliance on their phones and social media. This will have a huge and positive impact whilst strengthening family bonds and encouraging offline activities.


By Gary Holman (CEO Hubly)



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